Let’s make this the year of NEW connections with our spouse!
Happy New Year to you and your family! We hope your holidays were wonderful and that you and your spouse were able to find some sacred moments together, amidst all the festive hoopla 😉.
As we step into this new year, let’s make it a year of growing closer as a couple. Life can get busy, and we often fall into the same routines. But what if we made a point to step out of those comfort zones and create new, meaningful moments that bring us closer—spiritually, emotionally, and physically?
Ecclesiastes 3:1 reminds us that “there is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.” This is the perfect time to embrace new experiences that can strengthen our marriage bond and help us grow together as husband and wife.
Let’s commit to doing one new thing each week this year. It could be something we’ve never done before, something we’ve been wanting to try, or even revisiting something from the past that helped us connect. The goal is simple: create intentional moments that bring us closer to each other and to God.
Here are a few ideas to get started:
- New Date Nights – Switch things up and try something different—maybe a new restaurant, a fun outdoor adventure, or even a date night at home with a theme you create together.
- New Ways to Connect Spiritually – Explore fresh ways to grow in your faith together. You could start a new devotional book, join a small group, or just spend time praying together each night before bed.
- New Acts of Kindness – Find creative ways to serve together. Whether it’s volunteering, helping a friend, or simply doing little acts of kindness for each other, serving strengthens our connection to each other.
- New Conversations – Dive into deeper conversations each week. Talk about things you don’t often bring up—your dreams, challenges, and how you can better support each other.
Trying new things together might feel a bit uncomfortable at first, but that’s where the real growth happens. Every new experience brings us closer and helps us build a stronger, more meaningful connection.
The beauty of this idea is that it doesn’t have to be perfect. Some weeks, it might just be a small change, like taking a walk in a new place or cooking a meal together. Other weeks, it might be something bigger, like planning a weekend getaway or setting a new goal for your family. No matter how big or small, the point is to keep moving forward together.
As you try new things, keep Jesus at the center of it all. He’s the one who holds you together and guides your path. By inviting Him into these moments, you’ll not only grow closer to each other but also strengthen your faith and your purpose as a couple.
Later this month, we will be launching a brand new daily newsletter crafted for men who want to discover their true identity in Christ and live wholeheartedly as husbands on mission with Jesus. Each email delivers biblical insights, practical encouragement, and actionable steps to build a thriving marriage. Whether you’re seeking to deepen intimacy, improve communication, or grow spiritually, this newsletter equips you for the journey. Watch for more information in the next couple weeks!
Together for marriage,
Mike and Holly
